So, as I stated in my comments, I got rid of the Facebook cutie. Why? Cuz. If he wanted to meet me, he would have done so by now, and frankly, I don't hope well, so why bother hoping at all right?
I've decided to be the bitch (well , I am reading "Why Men Love Bitches" so I guess it makes sense?), wrote him a little note explaining and deleted him from both my Facebook and my msn.
See polite email:
"I'm cleaning house of all the people that I don't know at all/very well etc on my Facebook, and sorry to say you're one of them....
Thought you might maybe want to get to know me, but I guess not... so....hope you start to feel better, and all the best in the future, and you know how to get ahold of me if you want to, but I won't hold my breath (I don't look good in blue!)
Oh well. Another possibility bites the dust.
Sadly, I'm getting used to this.