Monday, December 14, 2009

communication

Yeah. I need to learn to do that a bit better. I am OH SO good at it at work. But so OH NOT good at it in my interpersonal relationships.

So, friend of mine had asked about the status of the situation with the Brit, I relayed the whole thing to her and she said to me "are you sure he understands where you stand on this issue, were you perfectly clear? Men can't read minds, women can, but men can't".

Ummmmm yeah so I was thinkin' to myself "was I?".

So I texted, clarifying the situation and got back a message ... well "what? what? it's about work, I had a surprise for you, I don't want to ruin it, I want to see you, what??????"

Um yeah. So little Miss Communication here....sigh.

So. I'll apparently have more company then I thought I would. Um.

Egg on face anyone?

Sigh, at 40 I would have figured I would have learned....by now?

Listening to: "Wheat Kings" The Tragically Hip

3 comments:

Technodoll said...

Men aren't from Mars... try Pluto!

But ya gotta love 'em when they've got heart...

Oh now I'm all excited for you! Bet you're counting down the hours :)

Surfergrrl said...

I'm not quite sure I understand??? So this is good, right? Email me later.

myself said...

TD - yep, I can't wait! but see new ickle bloggie entry for the latest!

Surfergrrl..yes, it's a good thing! I will email!