Saturday, June 13, 2009

bizarre

Ok. I'm all confuzzled....

The problem with having male friends is that I just assume that they are precisely that, friends. And nothing more.

Then at one point, I realize said friend wants more from me. I wasn't prepared for this. And not entirely sure what I want with this.

He's cute. He's tall, he's employed, he doesn't have a girlfriend......I like him. Common interests etc....

Oh but I wasn't prepared for this. I also know his ex....and I like her and that makes this all the weirder.

Can't anything that happens to me be normal? Or some proximity thereof?

Geez.

6 comments:

Adventures In China said...

Well since I hate surprises, I hate this kind of thing, but I have to admit it sounds like a great opportunity to explore! Let us know what happens! Obviously he has good taste. :)

myself said...

Still not sure how I feel about this. You know how we put people in certain places in our minds? He wasn't in the romance category....yikes.....

PrincessB said...

Sometimes the best relationships grow from friendship. But is there that intangible think? That spark? For me, if that's not there, it'll never work. Let us know!

Surfergrrl said...

i agree with princess. if it's not there, don't force it. that will really make your friendship awkward!

myself said...

Oh. I could definitely go there, I'm just horribly shocked. Totally....

Technodoll said...

Whoa - how the hell did I miss this??

And why are you shocked? you don't see what others do (specially this guy)?

Woman, wake up and smell that coffee that you love so much!

LOL